"When we think of words like commitment and surrender, I am afraid that most of us have the idea that one of God's favorite things to do on a rainy afternoon is to figure out ways to "whoof" us out. In reality he wants to live in union with you so that you will become far more than you ever dreamed you could be. He wants you to burn brighter and shine farther and illuminate longer that you ever thought was possible.
And our oneness with each other, and our twoness, should be the same way."
(See you at the house, Bob Benson, pg.119)