"Do you want to hold on to your kids?
Then let go. Laugh with them, cry with them, rejoice with them, and dream with them. But let go of them. Then when they come down the driveway to see you, you can know that the only reason they are coming is because they want to see you.
And you will begin to realize the deep joy that comes from having what you are willing to lose."
(See you at the house, Bob Benson, pg. 128)